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writes:Hi guys. I'm fairly confused at the moment. I've recently come home from a tour in Kenya. We went on a month long safari around loads of different game reserves and national parks. It was amazing.And it was made even more amazing by our guide who was with us the whole time from meeting us at the airport to dropping us back there. He was funny, intelligent and very friendly. He knew everything there was to know about the wildlife and I learnt so much from him.I developed feelings for him, he was cute and the exact same as me personality wise with the same interests. Since returning home I have befriended him on Facebook and we have been talking occassionally. I would like to move to Africa one day to work with animals and maybe live near where this guy lives as it was so beautiful there. The trouble is I'm interested in perhaps developing a better relationship (more than friends) but I'm not sure if he has different religious/ cultural beliefs and if that limits who he can see romantically (also he is black and I am white, which I have no issue with but don't know if that's frowned upon in Kenyan culture). I'm not sure how I can bring this up to discuss or if he even likes me like that? What can I say/ type to him to find out?
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reader, Snooks92 +, writes (6 December 2012):
Snooks92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice :) I've told him I'd like to move there and he seemed really excited. He has said that I'm gorgeous and sexy. He's also said that he would like to take me on a bush walk where its really beautiful. I'm guessing thats a good sign. I still haven't mentioned a relationship but will do in due time. Thanks again.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 I think you should start by telling him about your plans to maybe some day move to Africa. Tell him you want to but that you would want to be near someone who you knew so you where not completely alone. Ask him about his life, has he got a girlfriend, is there anybody he likes ect. Maybe flirt with him a little show him that you are interested without actually telling him. Compliment him show him you are interested and see if he returns the favour. Good luck.
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