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writes:Where should I start, ok i'll start here, I had a great friend, that friend works with my mom at a Hospital, and it was my mom that introduced us, my mom always wanted us together because shes the sweetest most gorgeous girl that you would ever lay your eyes on. My friend swings both ways but mainly you can call her a lesbian, and i never supported that type of lifestyle i was raised strict and religious but i never judged her either and til this day i would do anything for her. When me and that friend met we went on a few dates, we kissed and that's as far as we ever got, oh and let me say we kissed twice since I've known her and I melted both times, it was amazing and i'll never forget it. We sexted back and forth and we both seen each others naked pictures and we both found each other attractive but we decided mainly because she had a lot going on in her life at the time that we would be friends ....we stayed very good friends for years and she's been with several different girls since then. Well now presently I am with a person that is selfless and sweet and has always been great to me...we've known each other for 2 years and got married this last April . We now have a beautiful baby boy and we live a great life, we go to church have friends, and between the two of us we have a awesome family that supports us on both sides. She works in the medical field just like my friend. Me and my wife and little boy live in a city that's a hour away from where my lesbian friend lives and where I was born and raised. We moved here because its half way between my family and hers, her people are an hour the opposite direction. Things are great with us we share the same bank account and we both do our part in the realaionship when it comes to working cooking and cleaning and being there for each other except for one major thing...My wife is not sexually compatible with me, we may have sex once a month if that. She just doesn't enjoy it like I do. I masterbate a lot more than I need to. I want my wife and when I start feeling her up and seducing her she spats my hand away and tells me she's not in the mood. It hurts terriably .....i like to think I'm good at what I do....never had a girl tell me no when I started doing my thing...that is until I met my wife. So I still talk to my friend a hour away, I text her often and my wife is ok with it infact they both became friends, my friend was my wife's maid of honor at her wedding.....she came over last week and slept on my couch and baby sat our infant so we can get a night of sleep lol.....so yeah my wife has no issue with us talking but my wife doesn't know what we're talking about most of the time.....I tell this girl everything, she knows about me and my wife's sex life. We're best friends and I go to her to vent. Issue is, I want her I've always wanted her and lately she's been sending me pics and its been kinda dirty ....I Acctually love my best friend and have for a long time. We have more in common than anyone I've ever met....my wife is a good person but me and my wife are diffrent people that want diffrent things and sometimes we fight ...me and my best friend see eye to eye on everything ..... I've never cheated on anyone I've been faithful 100% in every realaionship I've been in and I beleve in marriage I use to be a youth minister and I still hold true to the scriptures teaching on marriage and adultery. I know what's right and wrong and I know talking to my friend the way I talk to her is wrong and I know wanting her is wrong. But the feeling is strong and part of her wants me too and she does not need to come stay the night with us again because I may be somewhere I shouldn't in the middle of the night ..... Any advice on doing the right thing?? :-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2012): maybe your not attracted to your wife anymore, or maybe you are but your best friend is more attrative whats the diffrence in their looks? and what kiinda women do you prefer?
& i really think you should either break it off with your wife or tell the truth you dont wanna break her heart :/
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (5 December 2012):
 You need to stop seeing your friend.
Talk to your wife about her unwillingness to have sex. If nothing changes, ask her to see a (preferrably) Christian marriage counsellor with you because life can't go on like this. It's just not fair on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis question was originally rejected so I edited it and reported it ...so reply to my other one I didn't know they were going to accept this one later on..
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