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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi i have been having sex with a man who is 36 and im 26 on and off for 2 years now. its been more friends with benefits than anything else, then i found out he had slept with someone else when we had agreed not to sleep with anyone else. stupidly i forgave him, now i have found out he has done it again and slept with a different person! i am in love with him but i also hate him, he is always texting me apologising and sending sad faces. i am scared i am going to give in and sleep with him again. how do i end things for good? thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2012): If you don't follow SVC and oldbag's advice then you're not just not going to be able to.
OP you had an FWB relationship while technically all bets are off and that is no-strings, he agreed to sexual exclusivity and he broke that twice.
OP either you dump him now or you can look forward to always having a nasty little reminder of him in the form of an STD.
You know what you have to do, you now know how to do it. The rest is up to you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 He is a user. He's using you. He takes advantage of your forgiving nature.
He can't cheat on you since you are FWB not boyfriend girlfriend.
YOU block his phone number
YOU block his email
YOU block his facebook/twitter
YOU walk away and ignore him.
go out with your friends, open yourself up to meeting new people and stay away from this user.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (3 December 2012):
 Hi
Just delete his number and learn to say/think no. Distract yourself when or if he texts,delete it and go do something,even if its just a shower and doing your nails.
Tell yourself he's no good,its going nowhere and you deserve alot better.Then vow never to get in this situation with any man ever again.
Start looking for a man you can have a healthy relationship with, not just being some blokes booty call.
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