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writes:I dont even know how to begin ...i feeling very low and really need some advice....Well I have this professor and i really really like him. He is very nice to me and always smiles at me.He is very attractive and no matter how hard i try i just cant stop liking him.He doesnt wear a ring so i thought he was single but during one of the lectures he mentioned that he has a daughter and i was so sad after hearing this. I looked him up on facebook he has pictures of his daughter and his wedding pictures and after looking at the pictures i cried beacause he looked so happy with his wife and daughter and that made me love him even more. I know that alot of students have crushes on their professor because they are attractive, successful and its very natural to like a man like that and i also understand that he is happily married and i dont want to ruin his life by doing something stupid but i just cant stop liking him. I cried after looking at his wedding pictures. I dont know what's wrong with me and i have no clue how to deal with this situation.I know that i can never have him and i dont want him now after seeing how happy he was but my mind/heart doesnt stop thinking about him. I feel so sad all the time now and my heart feels heavy? What do i do to get over this feeling?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 It will pass in time believe me. You say yourself you can see how happy he is and you need to accept that. You need to realise that his job is to teach you and even if he was single nothing could ever happen as it would be his career on the line. You just need to keep telling yourself nothing can ever happen, stop looking him up on facebook. Start going out and meeting new people, go dating and soon you will forget all about the crush you have on him. It does get easier with time.
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reader, Jennifer P.  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 It's a bit hard when you have a crush on someone and you wanna get over this feeling after knowing how happy he is with his lover. I ever had a crush on my teacher too but now not any more. But I still feel so uncomfortable when I'm with him just both of us lol But I tell myself I need to get out of this situation. So the advice is looking for another guy who is still single and ready to be with you. Forget him, don't look him up on facebook too often and remind yourself every time when you're with him that he already got married and have lovely kids :)
My advice may not make sense but I still cheer you up to get over this feeling!
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