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How do I help my friend see that her cheating boyfriend isn't worth her time?

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Question - (3 December 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2012)
A female Lebanon age 30-35, *ady in Love writes:

Hi everyone...i am a girl who loved some really hard for 5 month and then he cheated and no one knew about it but us, so we solved it between us and now our realtion is even better than anytime before and what happened made him change completly to the better partner i always hope he may becuase when he cheated he discovered that he can't loss me and that no one can make him happy but me.

My friend is engaged for 2 years now waiting for her husband-to-be to buy a home so they can get married, she is 17 years old, and blind in love enough to say that women must only get married and work to make their husbands happy. Not becuase she is my friend but she is the perfect partner any man can have. And unfortunatly her current husband-to-be is taking advantage of it.

He cheated too, he drove with a girl to his veledge where a common friend saw him and reported to my friends father who said he wants devorse.

Just so you know, the husband-to-be have left her many times before and every time he would come back she would take him

Also he is not at all worth keeping: he doesn't take her out, he doesn't buy her any thing, her birthday came by and all he did was text her a happy birthday and believe me! He got cash

What i need to know is how to help my friend out?

She wants him back saying that she loves him

Should i tell her about my story?

The common friend who saw him up there is my boyfriend, should she know?

I trully appreciate any help i can get to give my friend

Thank you

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (3 December 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntIf your boyfriend saw her husband to be cheating with his own eyes then I suggest that yes you do tell your friend, as she deserves to know the truth. At the moment your friend is in a bad place, she loves this man and will do anything to keep him, you need to be there to support her, help her through this and try and make her see sense. She more than likely won't listen to you as she wants to be with him but just make sure that no matter what you are there for her and she has your support.

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