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male
age
41-50,
*teve Jackson
writes: HEY.... a problem.. this girl from India is THE most beautiful person you'll find in the world. Brown eyes, Silky straight brown hair, fair skin, perfect height, pinky cheeks and rosy red lips. HA the problem is 36 guys out of 41 in our class have fallen in love and crush with her. What to do??
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (17 December 2011):
Try talking to her. Might be more productive than taking polls on who likes her and who doesn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2011): Be the one out of 36 who actually does something about it. It's that simple. Be careful doing what aunt honesty said. If you take too long getting to know her then you may get freindzoned. Better to get the formalities out of the way and ask her out for coffee or something. Time is not on your side when you have that have much competition.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (16 December 2011):
There really is nothing you can do. It is up to her who she wants to date. Just remember that looks aren't everything. Personality is important as well. Just try and talk to her and get to know her, be yourself.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (16 December 2011):
Wow 36 out of 41 guys have a crush on this particular girl?? She must be stunning. :^) But don't let that stop you from approaching her. Go to her with confidence, compliment her, introduce yourself, and if all goes well, you'll get her number. But if you don't get her number, or she's just not interested, don't let it get you down... at least you tried. And who knows... you may meet someone else who has interest in you as well.Here's some additional reading for you:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-approach-a-girlthe-right-way.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/what--women-want-most-from-a-guy.htmlBest of luck to you!
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (16 December 2011):
I know this sounds cliche, but it still holds merit and is some of the best advice I can give; be yourself. Let the other 36 guys make idiots of themselves trying to compete for her attention. Sure they may start out seeming like nice guys and all, but once they realize they are in competition, they'll begin to go further and further to sniff one another out.Meanwhile, if you just be yourself, say "hey" to her on occasion and be polite whenever you do talk to her, she should be able to tell you apart from the others. If she doesn't see it and falls for one of the Alpha Males who are making asses of themselves trying to outdo each other, she wasn't worth your time anyways.
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