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female
age
36-40,
*razylady
writes: So every time me and my husband have sex it only last like 4 or 5 min. And after that he can't seem to get it hard again, it sucks he can't go another round.. he's 31 so he's young , n I'm 23 and I never get pleased by him..what can I do to make it last longer or go another round? Does he need viagra or somthing? Mind u his never realy horny cuz we only have sex like once or twice a week.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 December 2011):
I would suggest he goes see a doctor before trying viagra. There can be a simple explanation to it.
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male
reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (16 December 2011):
I agree with the two previous advisors. And if he's lacking a good sex drive, it may be psychological or physical. So he should definitely go to a doctor- preferably a Urologist.
But he has the ability to get an erection right? So I don't think Viagra is totally necessary. It may be about control. He has to learn techniques on how to last longer in bed- and a sex therapist may be able to help him with that.
Here's some additional reading that may be beneficial for the two of you:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/guys-what-to-do-if-youre-suffering-from.html
Best of luck!
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male
reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (16 December 2011):
For two people to try to have a romance/relationship whilest they have widely differing libidos can be anquishing.... Ask this question of your B/F, NOT with a concern that he might take advantage of Erectile Dysfunction medication, but with an eye toward how the two of you can reconcile the libido mismatch (AND, him not figuring out how to pleasure/satisfy you more!!!!!)Good luck....
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