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female
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30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why do I keep doing this to myself. how can I stop?My ex boyfriend cheated on me, lied to me and broke up with and said he didn't want a relationship.He wanted us to be friends but I told him we can't cos he doesn't deserve me or my friendship.He said I have a split personality and he can't love me again.I think I've moved on but am not sure cos I check up on him once a week. See if he's on whatsapp.Why do I keep doing this? I want to forget him cos he clearly didn't love me.What should I do? Please help. Thanks..xx
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (17 December 2011):
You should listen to aunt honesty. You are stopping yourself progressing, and it does seem like he never cared as much as you. He cheated on you, and lets say you got back together, he will probably do it again.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 December 2011):
 Well he may not have loved you, but you had feelings for him that where deep and you want to believe that he felt the same, therefore you keep checking up on him to see if there is any chance that he feels the same as you do.
You need to move forward from this and get on with your life. Block him so you cannot keep checking up on him and move forward with your life. yes it can be hard but once you have strictly no contact with him it will get easier with time. Good luck.
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