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*ivejust2bJess
writes:My boyfriend is 18 and we been together for 8 months now and it's the longest relationship he's had. But there's this girl who he doesn't know who she is but texts him. And she sent him a picture and in the picture she took with her cell and she was wearing a low cut shirt and and was like she was holding it above her while looking up so she was showing off her boobs to him and I asked him if u don't know her why do you save her number and talk to her and he said because she's a friend. How the hell can someone be friends with someone if they never met or talked to eachother? and I told him how I feel about it and he said if numbers on his phone make me upset then I'm going crazy and that he doesn't want a crazy bitch in his life.....Am I going crazy and being too controlling or is it him? I'm so confused and super upset.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 March 2010):
His reaction tells me is a total liar and a cheat. Get rid of him.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (28 February 2010):
 Penguinsxtfw is spot on. What a complete tool!!!
Sweetie, do not tolerate this from any guy EVER. You're not controlling or crazy.
He is completely out of order. Please dump him and keep your power and dignity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): Dump that man NOW. First of all, NO you're not being controlling. Second of all, he should have asked her to stop the FIRST time that pic was sent. Third of all, the fact that he kept that girl's number is horrible and disgusting. You have no reason to stay with such a tool if that's how he's treating a delicate matter. It clearly matters to you, and he's being absolutely ridiculous to think that you're being a "crazy bitch". Man. What a TOOL.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 Your boyfriend-no offense-sounds real selfish-like a jerk really. As his grilfriend, you have the right to be upset about his getting this sort of pics and STILL talking to the sender. Some people would consider that a form of cheating. How would he like it if an attractive guy was sending you these types of images? And what kind of "friend" does these things in the first place? With them never meeting? You are NOT crazy. You are NOT being controlling. AND unfortunately, you are not being respected by this boy. Reffering to you as a "crazy bitch" is a strong sign that he's just not as good for you as you may have thought. You deserve someone who respects your thoughts and emotions. You have every right to be upset. Don't let him convince you otherwise.
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reader, FloridaGirl +, writes (28 February 2010):
No I think he is definitely being sketchy. Guys will get aggressive and angry when they know they are doing something wrong. I would tell him at the very least to text the girl and tell her to stop sending the pics --if he won't do that then I would dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2010): He is hedging his bet. It is time for the ultimatum to stop or else. Then you will see how much he is really into you. But be prepared, he make take the or else and you could be alone.
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