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writes: I liked this guy for 2 years. He is a year younger than me. We were in middle school and we had the same spanish teacher. He was the kind of guy that you love him but you don't think he would ever even think about liking you. So I kept it to myself. About two years later I saw him in person and we just started talking about everything. I decided to tell him about me liking him ever since spanish class and he was shocked. He also liked me. So we both liked each other secretly for 2 years. That summer we decided to hang out more. Thats when he asked me out. I fell in love with him. We did nothing during our relationship. All we did was makeout. And he wasnt a virgin. He never pushed me. We dated for 6 months. We never faught till the second month. After that we fought about little things that turned into a day or two break up. I made us fight because I thought that its what couples do. Whenever we would break up this girl would try to hook up with him. They would talk more but then me and him always got back together. This time we didnt. The night before we broke up he said he loved me and didnt want to lose me. The next day I was in a bad mood and we both agreed to break up. We havent gotten back together. Hes dating the girl that he was talking to during our relationship. But only when we were broken up. We havent been together in 2 months. I love him and I know he loves me. He isnt admitting it. What should I do?! I want him back. He says we are cool and that we are just friends. I dont want to be just friends. I want to be his girlfriend again. I was with him for 6 months and I want to be with him forever. I want to talk to him in person about it but I will start crying. Please help me.
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reader, Neanthia +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Sigh, fighting in couples is NEVER fun!!!! I think that's awful romantic but you kind of sunk your own ship by fighting just because that's what couples do! I don't know if it is possible for you to get him back. The best thing I think you can do is be his friend, talk to him, help him, etc. If he breaks up with the girl he's dating maybe you can get back together. I don't know what kind of guy he is but, most guys would think you're a bit clingy if you start telling him that while he's dating someone else. If you two really love each other and you're meant to be, then you probably will be! Please if you do get back together don't purposely fight because you never know what you have till it's gone. In the meantime spend time with him and other friends and just see how things pan out. Things could get worse, or a whole lot better only time and patience will tell. I hope things work out for you, I'm rooting for you. If this doesn't help feel free to tell me off. But good luck anyway.
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