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anonymous
writes:My husband and I have been separated for two years. He cheated on me after about 3 years of me pushing him away and suffering undiagnosed post natal depression. It was a nightmare.Anyway he moved in with her. And has been with her ever since.We have never been able to keep away from each other with phone calls etc and even though there was a lot of anger for a long time, we decided September last year to stop the arguing (mainly for the sake of the children) and at least try and get on.We have been getting on very well, and in fact have spoken recently of our feelings for each other.We have decided that we would like to try and work things out slowly. There is a problem however.His girlfriend or whatever you want to call her won't leave the house. It's rented and the lease is up soon, but she will not acknowledge it is over.There has been alcohol abuse, violence and many arguements between them. The alcohol abuse and violence coming from her. He has offered to let her have the lease in her name only and he will move out. He has offered to take on the lease and she can move out. She refuses to accept it is over. I don't want her to know about me because of the kids and I don't want her arriving over at our house causing a scene.My question is how can we get her to leave, other than lift her and carry her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2010): remember (forgiveness is the best medecine, but hard to swallow, if you could you'll be ill.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 March 2010):
He'll just have to move out and wait until the lease is up. That's all he can do. If it means paying, it means paying.
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