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anonymous
writes:been seeing this really nice guy i liked for ages, been seeing him for about 8 weeks now, everything was going great. he was texting me every day, seeing me every sat night until something changed.. i haven't seen him for 2 weekends because we've both had a lot on, so he hasn't been texting me all week, if i text him, he does text back. so on friday i text and said what's with you, have i pissed u off? he says no not at all, i'll talk to you when i see you, i then reply saying why that makes me worried, he then texts me again 2 hours later saying sorry fell asleep, i'll talk to u when i see you. What the hell does that mean? i was meant to be seeing him today but i didn't text him, i waited for him to text me, which he hasn't. do i assume it's finished?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): thanks for ur replies guys... he doesn't think we should see each other any more because we have nothing in common, he wants something long term and he isn't 'feeling anything' which is funny.. we hardly spent any time together in the first place so how can u get 'feelings' when u hardly see each other!
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reader, CaliMoore +, writes (28 February 2010):
 His behaviour has changed, but not to jump to any conclusions; simply text him and ask to arrange a date to see each other as that is what he replies. He could either - not reply, change the subject; make an excuse or arrange a date.
If he arranges a date, then go and see how he is and if he turns up! if he doesnt end it. If he does, all is good.
If he ignores you then clearly he just isn't that into you, and if he changes the subject or makes an excuse give him one last text ending it, if he likes you that much and doesnt want it to end he'll panick and make things right.
Good luck and let me know how you get on :) x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 February 2010):
Give it three days. If he has not contacted by then, text him and tell him that it's over and he needn't contact you again. And mean it. It sounds like he's not interested but doesn't know what to say. So give him the ultimatum in 3 days.
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