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writes: I feel very confused about my husband's behavior. To the point,where I might lose my mind. I'm originally a reasonable person, but my husband puzzling behavior really puts me on the spot. I can't figure him out. He says he loves me, but he does not look at me sexy,or have sex with me. Most of the times,he does not back me up in any conflict with others,or my children. He does not looking for any activity with me together in the present and in the future. I just can't read him. What should I do? I feel Im wasting my time, to try to figure him out...What can you do in a situation like that? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): I agree, he is a passive aggressive..And there is no way to change a passive aggressive men. I think, you put enough wasted energy in this relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010): I think,it is probably no longer tolerable,if you can't find out within 6 month ,what is going on in his head,and what can you do with this, you must leave..Sad,but no reason for you to be there.Maybe he is mentally ill.Please take care of yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): I suggest he is exhibiting passive-aggressive behavior.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): You should confuse him...Do not show any interest,behave differently..Confuse him.. Make yourself cold and unavailable..It will open his eyes again!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 March 2010):
In a situation like this, it's better to look at your husband;s actions. He says he loves you, but the word 'love' means nothing without the actions to back it up. And his actions scream that he is either lying, or just not bothered. I would suggest that you need to seriously think about whether this marriage is working out for you or not. Tell him that you don't believe he loves you because he doesn't show it, and tell him that your marriage is in jeopardy. Sometimes a man will suddenly wake up and move his ass. Other times he won't. If he doesn't, you'll know that he is no longer interested and that you'd be better moving on.
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