A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: I'm wondering if my best friend's boyfriend's behaviour is appropriate? We often all go out together,we have all been friends for many years, but when he has had a few drinks he becomes very tactile with me. He hugs me, grabs me and strokes me and recently even kissed my neck. This seems to happen at times when my best friend has left the room. Am I reading too much into this? what are your thoughts please?
View related questions:
best friend Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think I may have made it sound seedy, it doesn't feel that way though. I've known this person for over 20 years and we're very close friends so it' difficult to tell if this is over-stepping the boundaries.Thanks for your answers :)
A
female
reader, Gridrebel +, writes (1 March 2010):
It is what it is. No, you are not reading anything that isn't happening. The fact that you stated what is going on shows you are completely aware. Are you wanting affirmation? What about the word NO. JUST SAY NO TO MORAL COWARDICE.
...............................
A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 March 2010):
Yes, he's hitting on you. So stay well clear of him, and if it gets worse, don't warn him, just tell her.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010): Yes. He is hitting on you. It will only get worst unless you object firmly. Your friend will blame you if she catches this. If it is alcohol induced, then don't be the unattached person when you go out with them.
...............................
|