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writes: Hey. I don't know if my teacher know I like him.I've liked my reacher for just over a year now and he wasn't at my parent teacher meetings so my mum and dad made an appointment to go and see him and I was there. Well he jokes with me and makes fun of me for fun and I do the same, but my mum told him I come home and tell them what he says with a buzz in my voice. I also go and talk to him some times just for a chat, well she said it sounds like I never leave him alone. If he does know should I avoid him or act normally Do you think he suspects I like him cause I went all red and embaressed?Thanks guys in advance
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady  +, writes (9 March 2010):
:S I would hope teachers would lose more than just their jobs if they tried it on with a girl under the age of 15. Infact id hope they'd land their names on the sex offenders register and spend a few years in prison. If a teacher ever acts on any feelings for a student EVER, i would consider that that man is dangerous and not fit to be a teacher. I was sexually abused by a teacher when i was at school from age 14 until i left. I was never believed, and the police couldn't do anything without witnesses. The attentions of a teacher might seem like a flattering exciting thing to begin with but dont let that fool you. The sort of people who engage in relationships with minors dont have the minors best interests at heart and are usually narcissistic. Unions are only ever painful and short lived, and can influence the rest of your life. Nothing is worth that.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 you're friends with your teacher, which is good. If he knows what's for the best, he won't act any different around you unless you started to try to move things forward (which you shouldn't). Don't worry about it. Maybe tell your mum that she shouldn't tell people stuff like that.
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reader, KateMcL +, writes (28 February 2010):
 Hun,I know exactly how you feel.
Ive liked my woodwork teacher for 3 years.
He flirts with me,pokes fun at me and he is a complete gentleman.
I`m sure he knows that you are somewhat attracted to him,there is absolutley nothing wrong with that aslong as it is not act uponed..
Have fun..keep fliritng,chatting all the normal stuff you do with him,But just act mature...dont ever do anything you would look back on and be compelety mortified about.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 There is nothing wrong with liking someone. You just need to make sure you dont come on to him or encourgage him to come on to you. You are a hot blooded young girl and he is a man.
Dont encourgage him to flirt with you. You need to maintain a distance and allow him to continue to be professional. You are probably not the only girl who likes him so he has ways of dealing with it.
Remember teachers can lose their jobs over any form of child abuse so dont put him into an awkward position.
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