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*enny Lee
writes:Hi Ive been dating a guy for 2years and this morning I found out he was married with 3kids i am in total shock as i loved this guy i thought we had a future together its like the last 2years together have been a lie,I need help what do i do to move on, how will i ever trust another man again do you think that there are still genuine SINGLE men out there??Jen.x.
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reader, Weva  +, writes (1 May 2010):
 My heart goes for u, u must been in such a pain. I m in the same situation as u, I have been dating with him for four months then I realize he is actually married with 1 kid.
I was really devasted. Never I would imagine myself as a homewrecker. I cried my heart and soul out when I found out the truth. He has been treating me like a princess and I thought we clicked so well. Only then I knew he was not avaliable.
I wanted to leave him, he even go to the extend of going down on his knees crying - not to leave him. I ignored his calls and messages for 2 days. Eventually my heart gave in and I met up with him. He tried to convince me that he has no love for his wife , it is because of his child he is staying. Because his child does not want to stay with him if parents are divorced.
I m in a fixed. Going through major exams now.I hope to find courage and determination after I hav done with exams.
I hope you could pm me, and we could provide each other the moral support to leave this pit hole tog? I felt so alone and I need strength from others going through the same stuffs or have been through it before.
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reader, Jenny Lee +, writes (30 April 2010):
Jenny Lee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your answers they have helped I took a personal day and went out shopping!!
Thank you
Jen.x.
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reader, goowes +, writes (30 April 2010):
 What a dirtbag, take this as a wonderful lesson, and consider yourself lucky to be able to walk away. Learn how to screen better.
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reader, It's all be okay +, writes (30 April 2010):
I don't understand how this happened?
Did you never go to his house?
Did you not go on holiday with him in those two years?
Did you not know where he was when he was spending time with his wife and children?
For the benefit of everyone who doesn't want to make the same mistake, can you help explain how this happened?
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reader, princessofGod43 +, writes (30 April 2010):
 awww Sweetheart...i heart for you...that must have cracked and demolished the ground underneath you....how do you move on...well take a sick day at work..if you have one...take yourself out for a movie or dinner or both...love you...you are not the stupid one...and trusting someone is not a bad trait in you...it's lovely matter of fact...and I need to tell you that the fact that you want to move on shows great integrity and a promise of good things from God...You value God's territory...which is marriage...and you want to do what's right...you are a great woman...you should look in the mirror and say to yourself...self I am a beautiful woman...i have a moral obligation to myself and his wife to move on and to God...and I am going to do that! I didn't do anything but love someone that was deceptive....you did nothing wrong!!!
You will have to cry...get it out....but don't let him have access to you anymore! The curse of what happen is all his and the blessing for you is that you value that marriage is sacred! I hope this helps you
God Bless you Princess!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 April 2010):
You must move on. He's a lying cheat who has used you. If you don't move on, you'll just continue to be used. He won't leave her. And yes, there are plenty of single men out there.
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