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writes:Just a quick simple question..A couple of days ago, a girl i'm good friends with asked me out, we get on like house on fire and have all the same interests and stuff but her age is bothering me alittle bit..Im 18 in a matter of weeks and she's only 15 for the next few months..I have pleanty of morals and no i am not going to sleep with anyone whos underage..Just wondering if the fact im in a realtionship with someone under 16 will be frowned upon..Thanks.. Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (30 April 2010):
 Some very old fashioned people may not approve. But -
a. You are your own person and can do as you please (within reason)
b. You've stressed that you don't intend on breaking the law.
c. You shouldn't care what people think about something this trivial
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reader, goowes  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 You are a good man. This kind of consideration is very honorable!!! Rare. I think it is illegal for you and could get you into trouble. Age wise its not yucky, but, socially appropriate, if you treat her with respect, which you already are. The sex part is a serious cosideration though, I'd look into the law part of it.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 It may be frowned upon but that would be short lived. Once she is 18 or even 17 all of a sudden that age gap seems non existent. It's truely weird why soceity does this. Once everything is legal alot of people won't say anything although some still will.
Keep in mind that there are people out there who find nothing wrong woth this. I am one of them and believe that there is no reason why you two can't have a great loving relationship. We are not in control of who we fall for.
Best of luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2010): Caring guy is right. At your age that gap will be looked down on. In a few years that age gap won't matter one bit. Good luck, and don't do anything that will land you in jail.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 April 2010):
Yes it will. Realistically, it will. Once she's 16, and everything is legal, people will be less likely to judge. But as it is people wont' see her as anything other than a young girl who is easily led astray. I think it will be frowned upon, so the best thing you can do is wait.
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