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writes:Now I have no idea whats going on!I think my boyfriend is going to break up with me. I think this because, 1: He still eats at our lunch table but then he goes outside, that wouldn't bother me at all, but he asked another girl to go outside with him, and he never even attempted to ask me. 2: He's going to the formal dance in a limo with another girl, and hasn't offered to pick me up. This is my first boyfriend so I don't really know the signs, but my mom, my cousin, and I all think so. What do you think? Is he going to break up with me? I'm so confused! Please help!
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reader, goowes +, writes (1 May 2010):
 I wouldn't even give him the honor of being called your boyfriend. Sounds imature and self centered, do not wait for him to break-up with you. You tell him he's not okay and you are bored with him. He sounds like a dump would do him good.
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reader, morningstar9691 +, writes (1 May 2010):
morningstar9691 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so tonight was the formal dance, and now i have a whole bunch of mixed signals from him, he bought me a rose, he didnt go in the limo tonight, and he was just in an awesome mood,i mean really i dont know what to do, and i really like him!We got a whole bunch of pics together, he put his arm around me, when we were getting the pics,it was just an awesome night! but i still cant get my mind off of the whole, how hes going to breakup with me. now im getting mixed signals, and really dont know what to do know!
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reader, raiders +, writes (30 April 2010):
 Are you sure he is your boyfriend? If he is than you should know and understand he is not worth your time. You should beat him to the punch and move on. When a girl has a boyfriend she should expect him to treat her with respect and make her feel special. When they cheat at least expect him to hide it from you not to flaunt it in your face. You are young and I hope you learn from this experience and note that this behavior is not acceptable.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (30 April 2010):
 What is this Formal dances and limo's in the 13 to 15 age bracket. Why are we all in such a rush to make children act like "adults". ok to answer the question he broke up wit you a long time ago. It's over, kaput, gone. And that's ok, because you are young and have a lot of life ahead of you.
Don't waste a minute of time worrying about him. Get ready for your summer romance / crush. Have fun, Date lots of guys, get to know them. I know people think that casual dating is dead but it is still a very valuable tool in learning about what you like without getting hurt like you are now.
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reader, cnith +, writes (30 April 2010):
 dude... not only is he going to break up with you... he already HAS but you missed it.
He's moved on to a new girl. I don't know how else to put it to you but damn, he's f ing RUDE for not telling you. Unless he did and you missed it.
Move on. Try focusing on your studies. You don't need this aggravation. I know you like him and you like boys but studies will put food on your table.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 If he is taking another girl to the formal dance rather than you then he is really not worth your time! He sounds like a complete jerk!
If I were you I would just beat him to it and end things with him now, he is not treating you very well so you really deserve better!
When you have a boyfriend they should treat you like a princess, make you feel speical and make you feel like you are the most important person in the world. If he is having lunch with other girls and taking them to dances then he clearly does not care about you or respect your feelings so he is just not worth you giving him the time of day!
Just get rid of him now and find a nice boy that cant wait to spend all his time with you.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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