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writes:hey, i know im only young but im fed up of being messed about by boys and want to find someone that is tidy for a change. when i go out i do get boys numbers but they always just want a bit of fun and nothing else. someone have suggested dating sites? i dont know what to do can anyone suggest something to me plz? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your help, you've helped me a lot and made me think not to go out looking for someone just to wait for them to come to me and NOT to give in to there sweet talk :)
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reader, princessofGod43  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 Little princess, do not go on dating sites trying to find a perfect person...or someone who won't lie or cheat...you have to give yourself time...and just let life happen for you...by all means don't go to a club like most young and old people do looking for mr or mrs perfect...but if you are a quality person...and working on becoming a better adult just live life dress well put on your makeup like you already have a man and be about your business everyday someday when you are not looking that someone special will be there for you...and i am not talking fantasy...but real talk....looking for someone is the wrong way to handle this situation...just become more and more the lady that will attract the kind of man you want and you'll get it believe me! God Bless
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reader, cnith +, writes (30 April 2010):
 I don't agree, on the guys getting your number thing. I've hung out with men my whole life. More men than women because women annoy and frustrate and confuse the heck out of me. Men are simpler to deal with and not as confusing...most of the time.That being said I will give you this advice. Go ahead and get their number but when you call state straight off you do NOT want to hook up. You're looking for a boyfriend.Now you'll still get the boys that go yeah yeah, sure babe, anything you want. I'll be your guy, don't worry! And they'll be sweet and all then try to get into your pants before they say thank you ma'am goodbye!No no, you gotta be smarter than that. A man who's going to go the extra mile will wait for you. He won't pressure you and his sweetness will be natural and genuine.I have found that being friends first helps you because then you know what the guy is like and they won't be pressuring you for sex or anything because you're a friend. And you have made it clear you don't do the whole friends with benefits part.Granted, most of those boys are geeks/dorks/nerds but they are the sweetest things in the world. Some of them are even hot, once you help them fix up their insecurities. :)Dating sites are OK. I found by bf on OKCupid! but being female you'll be hounded by dogs so just keep that in mind.It's human nature. Men will hound you because you're female. But remember, it's YOUR choice, not theirs. You can choose to talk to them or not.And do remember, boys will get away with whatever you let them. Stand strong. If you really want a relationship you'll have to throw out a lot of cute looking frogs but eventually you'll find a prince. :)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (30 April 2010):
 Skova is absolutely right. Go for guys who get YOUR number. And it's possible that you're in the wrong place to get the good ones.
People may laugh, but church or a good hobby or the gym might be a good place to find someone interested in more than a drink and a roll.
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