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anonymous
writes:I dont know what to do.I was with this boy november 2009, i was in love with him. I couldn't stop myself, i kept falling more and more in love with him everyday. It took about a week to fall in love with him. Sounds fake, but its true! I'd tell my best friend everything, every girl does, right? You'd think you could trust your best friend. Well thats what i thought.Well she added him on facebook and started talking to him. She'd add about 7 kisses on the end of everything she said, she didn't even know him. She asked him for his msn and started talking to him every day. She started flirting with him over msn, and he was flirting back. She sent me every conversation trying to make me jealous, i tried not to let it bother me too much. But i just got completly jealous and got really annoyed. I asked him if he liked my 'best mate' atall, he said no. I was in a really bad mood cause my 'best mate' was trying to ruin our relationship, so i had a go at him. That was the wrong thing to do. I was having a video call with my 'best mate', my boyfriend had told me he didn't care about me anymore and went offline. I was crying on cam to her, an she asked what was wrong. So i told her, and she had a look on her face, as if she was thinking 'my plans worked, he might like me' and she was laughing. The next day he finished me, my 'best mate' just laughed in my face. She was flirting with him for about 2 weeks after he finished me, she sent me every conversation and she would forward me every text. Nearly 5 months later im still madly in love with him, but i dont want to be. It annoys me, its annoying cause he's always in my head and i can't stop thinking about him. Hes got another girlfriend now. What can i do to try and forget about him?Is there anything i can do?Please help. :)xox'
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reader, goowes  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 Replace him. Go get a new boyfriend. Your lucky he's gone look how he respected friendship and boundaries, he didn't and he was cold and mean. Before you do any love moves you should think about why you want a guy like that you need to take better care for yourself mind and heart.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (30 April 2010):
 Heads up, little sister.. your "best mate" ISN'T -but I'm sure you know that now. With friends like that who needs enemies? Sounds like she did you a favor and got rid of the loser BF for. Forget him. Take up kick boxing or something that requires your full attention and kick this guy out of your head, he's living there rent free. Throw darts at his picture. Think of every time he had bad breath. Feel sorry for the girl who has to put up with him now. Walk the dog. Grow flowers. Make it a point to make someone smile each day. You have the rest of your life ahead of you! Take care of you. Time heals all wounds and you suffered a deep one here. Betrayal is difficult to handle on most every level at ANY age. This will certainly not be the last time it happens but you can decide now that you'll make lemonade from lemons! Be good to you!
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