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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:i know i am only young and i shouldnt really be thinking about realionships at this point in my life but i havent had a bf in such a long time i feel like im ugly, fat and just no gd to anyone i know thats stupid to think about myself but i really need someone in my life and i have just been feeling so lonely and depressed all the time and sometimes i feel like someone, anyone could make me feel better... what should i do ? plz help
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reader, goowes  +, writes (30 April 2010):
 First you have to get rid of that depression, its awful and not attractive. You are as pretty and hot as you think you are, the most chased women are the ones that convince men they are the it. Everyone is beautiful, and forget that are they good enough for you, everyone is equal, use this time to heal your mind and emotions, before a relationship, it will help you pick a better one and men hate emotional and needy and desperate more than anything. If you get one now you'll probably catch a dirtbag, Gotta be what you want.
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reader, It's all be okay +, writes (30 April 2010):
You haven't had a bf in such a long time? How long exactly? 10 years? I don't think so - if you're 13-15 years old. Most girls of that age haven't even had a boyfriend at all.
I suspect this is not about not having a boyfriend. When you're only that age, a boyfriend is someone you see occasionally to go to the cinema or play a game with, and doesn't cure you feeling "lonely and depressed all the time".
Are you sure you feel lonely and depressed ALL THE TIME? Or just sometimes? We all feel depressed sometimes, and maybe it's just pre-menstrual and will pass in a few days time?
We all feel ugly and fat when we are a bit depressed, but really, you know you're not fat and you know you're not ugly - it's just because you're feeling a bit down.
I assume you still live with your family, so don't be lonely - talk to your mum about how you feel, and she'll surely try to cheer you up.
And don't worry about boyfriends - they'll come soon enough.
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