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*ilentrose333
writes:Hey, I know this may sound weird, but i'll give it a shot: My best friend's boyfriend's brother is almost 26 years old. He recently found out that his girlfriend had an affair with his brother, and was freaking out. Since my bff, her bf and i always hang out, i knew him very well. I offered him advice, and soon he became almost dependable on what i had to say. the other day i saw him at the starbucks and he took me for a drive. Later on he told me that i was mature for my age and that he almost loved me. He's been very sexual towards me and I'm afraid that he wants me to fill in for his gf, but im only 16, and it would be completely wrong. How can I handle this?
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reader, princessJaye14 +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Whoa, first off, he is waaaayy too old for you. Right now you're like his life raft on the sea of emotions. It was extremely generous of you to help him, but you can't let him get any closer, despite his injured heart. Tell him that you think things have gone too far, and he should agree. There are so many women that he can meet!! :)
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reader, Empressjai  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 This guy is looking to heal his wounds in the arms of any woman nearby but you are not a woman yet. He is looking for a rebound connection and wants to get with some girl, any girl quickly so he doesn't have to deal with his pain, hurt and loneliness on his own.
If you go ahead and have sex with him and he starts to pull away once he has had his fill you will be the one to get seriously hurt. The more you try to cling and hold onto him the more he will reject you. He's mess up right now and in turn he will mess you up also.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (1 May 2010):
 You are too young. Goowes said it - it's illegal, and you're not in the same place in life as he is. Don't let him use you as his rebound safety net. You will get seriously hurt.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (1 May 2010):
 Cut all contact with him for a while.
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reader, goowes +, writes (1 May 2010):
 That is illegal and he should know better. But he is on the rebound and men aren't very skilled at dealing with emotions like girls are. Stay away from him, tell him you aren't able to help him and that you are not comfortable, let another person know about it (maybe parent) to help you be safe and make decisions. He is an adult and that stuff is way too much for you to deal with in your life at 16.
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