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This guy has helped me out a lot, but does not want a relationship, am I wasting my time?

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Question - (31 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 October 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

This guy and I went to high school together (he had a crush on me, and I didn't know it), I graduated and moved away. He graduated the next year, we lived our lives for the next 20 years and ran into each other one night. We started talking on the phone and he asked me out, but we seemed to always have something coming up and couldn't. Then one night he calls and says can I come over and hang out. I did, we did, and we seemed to have a lot of chemistry (still do, He keeps telling me he just wants to be friends and that he is emotionally closed off, but when he has a few drinks he is all touchy, feely with me and has helped me through quite a few trying times, car breaking down, renting me a house, losing a job etc.... Do you think I am wasting my time on this man, or is he trying to keep himself from getting hurt again????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008):

Sweety hes just trying to get some. TO me he seems as though his male genitalia is bursting out when he drinks. I am a lady but when i drink i get that way as well. so overall I would say either dont give him any, depending if you want to take things further, or just ask him what doe she want, ask him when he is sober first and ask him when he is drunk to see if the answer changes.

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