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anonymous
writes:hi, i have known this guy for about a month and basically today we decided to meet up for a coffee, he said he would text me telling me exactly what time today because he had university.anyway we had decided around 5 so he texts me at that time, not telling me where to meet but "hey what are you up to?" anyway long story cut short i tell him im in the library working so he comes.im there with a friend and we sit and chat all three of us for abouthalf an hour. what im confused about is not once did he mention oh so do you want to go for that coffee now or is it too late to go..basically he never mentioned anything about the "date" so my friend and i left i even asked him oh are you going to stay here or....and he said yes im going to use the computer....im confused my friend says he was shy he didnt want to metion it in front of her...im really confused please help?is he into me or was he letting me down gently ???:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): Just go for it, what have u got to lose? if he says no, at least u know where u stand. Asking him out cant exactly put him off you.. maybe ur just scared to know? Good luck, men are a pain sometimes lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): me again, but if i text him again now won't that seem too clingy and maybe even a little desperate??
i do think that maybe my friend shouldn't have been there and maybe he got shy in asking if the "date" was still on in front of my friend.
another thing is that i had parked my car near to where he lives so he couldve walked down with me and he did ask oh so is your car there now with the tone of voice that sounded to me like he was thinking hmm! but he didnt even suggest it or anything..im really confused!!
i don't really know where to go from here..should i wait for him to get in touch to see if he is still interested?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): i am the person who asked the questionid like to add he then added my friend on friend on facebook after only meeting her for 30 minutes! whats going on??!!
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