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anonymous
writes:From a males point of view why is he pushing me away and being so mean i dont really understand? me and this guy have been dating for about 6 months now and monday we was fine not fighting or anything and he calls me and tells me he is moving out and that i need to move on because he doesnt have his head together enough to be commited to anyone ! my best friend works with him and she told him yesterday her theory on everything which was that he was torn between me and his ex and he absolutely said that was not it that he himself wasnt in no shape to be commited to anyone right now ! now keep in mind about 1 month ago he left all of the sudden like this and it was because of his ex she told him that she wanted them to get back together ! so he up and lef out of nowhere and after a week he came home after i sat and taljked to him and i told him that i was truly in love with him and that if she would have truly wanted him back when he went to get his kids from her that weekend she would have took him back home with her at that point , but she didnt! they have been apart for 2 years and i am the only girl he has talked to dated kisssed slept with or anything and i think now she wants him to do what she says like he is a puppet on a string . i just dont understand how e can be fine the on sunday talking about getting married and us having a baby together then all of the sudden he leaves for no reason at all and is just completely being a jerk pushing me away ! but yet he does all this by text he want even look me in the face i went by his work to take some papers he needed for court and he would not even talk or look at me ! someone just please help me understand !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Dear Poster
Be strong. Have confidence in yourself and trust yourself to be in the stronger and better position. Be there as a friend, but do not open your arms to welcome him back in your life and bed. He must overcome his issues and if need be let him go for counseling.
You deserve the best.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjust so everyone know my best friend confirmed friday that he had went back home to his wife , but he texted me yesterday and ask what was i doing and i didnt text back now he has texed me all day starting at 7 this morning telling me he screwed up and talking about killing himself i told him he made this choose and i love him and will be here as his friend but omg where do i go from here !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Uncles and Aunts
Please note
Repeat question, herewith the link:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-continue-to-tell-him-how-much.html
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