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writes:My Boyfriend of 6 years and I have just recently broken up. Our relationship was strained for about a year before the breakup. I love him and I think he is my one true love. He has since started seeing someone, however he still calls me all of the time, up to three times a day. I dont understand... he says he just wants to be friends... But why is he calling me so much. I asked him if his new girlfriend knows that he still contracts me. He said she does and is not happy about it. I dont understand what is going on. I love him, I want him back... What do I do?
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reader, 1trainer1  +, writes (31 October 2008):
tell him the truth about your feelings, but it is best to not do it over the phone but rather in person as if he has any feelings for you you will realise when you see him and talk to him as you can see it in his eyes...
if he says yes then you should try to start afresh not worrying about the problems you had prevously that made you break up but see it as a new oppurtunity
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe broke it off. Although we dated for 6 years we have know each other for over 20 years. We watched each other go through marriage and divorce. We have a very strong bond we seem to be on a yo-yo string and neither of us will let go. He is also the type of person that does not go back... he goes forward. This is what I am afraid of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Well sweety let him now how you feel. A man cant read your mind. no matter for how long he has been with you . I was in the same exact position with my boyfriend a few months ago. I made him get rid of that woman, and get to me right away. Just ask him who was beter you or that girl that he is with. Be straight forward and let him know.
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