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writes:i need help.. i have a new boyfriend. we've been together for about 2 weeks now. we're both not virgins. we hang out a lot and it's kinda tempting to have sex. i mean we just get in the moment. we've almost done it twice but i made it stop before it got too far. i kinda feel bad because i like lead him on and then i just tell him not to do anything. but see there's this little feeling in me that says i don't want to do it this early. but i know he does.. but he respects if i want to wait a while. but i just don't know if its ever too early? or what.. i just need someone's opinion on this pretty much. thanks if you can help! xx Reply to this Question
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reader, laydee37  +, writes (3 June 2010):
Hey! Please take my advice!
My boyfriens and I have been together for 4 years and we're both 17 and virgins!
We were close to having sex like a few months back but we didn't!
The guilt was eating me up!
First off we were way too young! And my new theory is if your married you can have sex! I don't care if your 19 or 25 if your happily married then go for it!
I was thinking about something.. Imagine if u had sex with your surrent bf and (GOD FORBID) you guys break up! And 5 years later when you marry someone else don't you feel bad cuz you wantes to share that special moment with ur husband?
Seriously! Even though you're not virgins don't have sex.. Please!
If he truly loves you he'll wait and you too!
And btw.. 2 weeks? There's no way in hell you 2 should be having sex!
Hope I helped! :)
And no offence.. I'm being honest!
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reader, lopikult +, writes (31 October 2008):
forget getting pregnant yes yes yes trust me it's not worth it and while i think you would enjoy it and he too it's more about where you see yourself in 5 years if you guys are thinking marriage go for it get married, just need some witnesses and stuff but if not then wait it out, cause when you do get married if you feel your bf now will start feeling deceived if you dont have sex imagine what your husbands going to think when you're 25 and have been sleeping around the last 12 years....
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