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writes:Just so I can gain some strength and hope.... Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate, best friend and the love of their life... only for them to leave you to go back to their ex wife or husband?... Yet you have come out of the experience stronger?I have been with this man for years but due to money stress and unresolved feelings and persistant messages from his ex.... including ultimatums..... he has gone back. He says he his trying to do the right thing. Yet he says it is me he would want to be on a desert island with. I am trying to make sense of this.Thanks
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reader, Reebe +, writes (31 October 2008):
 Some times you can not make sense of things, but you have to accept he has made a decision, and it sounds like it was a hard one.
You don't say if him and his ex have any kids? If they do then that could be why.
Do not chase him, do not send him texts/calls etc - delete his number, although write it down some where.
If he left this other woman to be with you, maybe the guilt got to much, or even though I hate to say it, maybe he thought he'd made a mistake.
I know it's hard I have also lost someone who I thought I would be with for the rest of my life, he made a decision to move on, it does get easier although it doesn't go away after a while you feel that your stong enough to move on.
You will be a stronger person, and please don't let it make you bitter and angry you are only hurting yourself.
Be strong things will get better - I promise.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Hi,
you will be just fine. From the looks of things it seems as if he did not get over his ex. Time will heal all things and you will rise up in the end. You will see, just give it time.
All the best,
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