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*oran Cullen
writes:HelloOkay, i am incredibly obessed with my girlfriend and we have dated almost 3 years already and we've been breaking up and hooking up again every few weeks but there are still stuff that are still bothering me? Last year me and my friend were talking chatting along trying to convince one of my best friend that kissing another girl is a great thing. But suddenly i caught her kissing him on the lips for a minute which made me feel devastated and i've totally lost trust in her not to cheat on meNow this year they have been hanging out more then ever, Walking each other to class, sitting really close together and sending text together. Again i was devasted seeing them doing this every single DAY! so i decided to talk to her about it and all i got was "It was a small kiss because she felt sorry for him" or "They were just close friend"And suddenly i caught my best friend who is close friend with her typing "I love you" in text to her (Well my friend was watching them and saw it so he told me) What should i do? is she cheating?
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reader, Roran Cullen +, writes (3 November 2008):
Roran Cullen is verified as being by the original poster of the question I also hate how this william guy she likes everytime he goes by she just wave him goodbye and tells me i can't have crushes when she has
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (31 October 2008):
 You need to talk to her and ask her what she wants. If she says she doesn't know, then say to her you'll give her space until she makes her mind up, but then DO give her space!
If this goes on for more than a couple of weeks I would probably think about ending things with her. I know you care for her, but it's a big world out there!
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reader, Roran Cullen +, writes (31 October 2008):
Roran Cullen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou see the thing is Reebe that i dunno if she likes it when i am being possesive i mean when i broke up she kept asking me to get back with her i think she like me being possesive of her
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reader, Roran Cullen +, writes (31 October 2008):
Roran Cullen is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, that really helped and Reebe that exactly what i've been doing i've been ignoring her and relaxing.
And loveguru maybe your right i'll ask her
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reader, loveguru_india  +, writes (31 October 2008):
i thing she is not interested in you anymore because of some reasons.
have you ever kissed her or have sex with her. may be she want to do sex but you are not understanding her emotions.............. try to sort it out....... if she still do the same then she is cheating...........
best of luck
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reader, Reebe +, writes (31 October 2008):
The only way to know for sure is for one of them to tell you. If you have asked your girlfriend and she has said nothing is going on, and you don't believe her then you obviously don't trust her.
I think they are close, but whether she is cheating on you, only she can tell you that.
You sound quite possesive of her and most girls don't like that, try relaxing and chilling out a bit, back off for a while and see if she comes to you. If she does ask her if she still wants to be with you.
Face it head on, don't shy away from it, even if your told something you don't want to hear, it's better to know and to deal with it.
Good Luck.
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