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writes:Hey, I've met this girl I really like at my college. I've liked her since we first met and I really really want to be with her, but I can't tell if she likes me the same way or not. One day she practically ignores me but the next she'll ask me if I want to go and get something for dinner. I'm just so confused, can anyone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (31 October 2008):
 I think she does like you, because i actually like this guy at my college (told him i loved him the other day but turns out he's tryin to get back with his ex) anyway, in relevance to your situation - i'm like this girl you mention, i ignore him some days and other days i'm all over him. It's because i don't wanna act too desperate and i don't wanna scare him off or anything. Its what us girls do, to hold onto those we really care about and love. I'd tell her, good luck xx
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (31 October 2008):
 I think she is playing with you because she maybe likes you, what she is doing is called love play and it can make you crazy soemtimes...lol.
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reader, Artistry  +, writes (31 October 2008):
 Hi there, Sometimes, girls are reading the book of "Rules". She is young to be doing that, but maybe it is her own way. That would be to act as if she is not interested, when she actually is interested. Don't give up, because if you don't try, you'll never know. But after you do a little more persuing, stop for a while and let her do the wondering. Then go back abd try again, if she responds, then go from there. You might want to tell her that you don't like playing games, that you would like to know if she wants to go out with you. From there you will know what she is thinking, if there is any real interest or not. Good luck.
But also if she is not romantically inclined, sometimes friendship can grow into a deeper relationship Don't lose hope, but don't stop being with other girls that you like.
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reader, ggl777 +, writes (31 October 2008):
Maybe she doesnt want to look desperate or she herself is not sure if you like her..ask her to hang out with you more and see what happends
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Sounds like she might quite like you ... why let her be the one who determines the days she does not talk to you! Perhaps its those days she is longing that you ask her! Us girls don't like doing all the running!
Good luck
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reader, Reebe +, writes (31 October 2008):
 There's only one way to find out! Ask her out! You never know she might even say yes!
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