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anonymous
writes:Can men fall in love with the woman they lose their vigrinity to? I've seen it happen with women at a young age, my boyfriend was a virgin and after we started having sex he completely changed and dropped the i love you's two months later.
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (14 March 2008):
 greener pastures, I guess? You were the first and now he wants to try it elsewhere........happens all the time.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (14 March 2008):
Yes men can fall in love with a woman who he loses his virginity to, however it doesnt always happen as many men dont have sex for love, they have it to fulfil their sexual desires.
It must really hurt to have your bf stop saying I love you after you had sex with him. I sort of know how you feel. When I slept with my ex bf (I was a virgin before him) it wwas a big deal to me and I thought he loved me. About 1 month after we first did it, he changed, he became rather nasty to me and basically insenstiive and seemed to stop loving me. Basicaly his true colours started to show.
So based on my personal expeirence it seems to me that maybe your bf only wanted sex? But there could be another reason. How long have you two been together?
Have you confronted him about why he has stoped saying I love you? You really hsould ask him and see what he has to say. Hope it works out for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): Yes they can. I was my partners first and we are still together 9 years later!!!!
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