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writes:me and this guy were together over a year and we had a great relationship, everyone thought that we were going to get married and well i thought that we were too. The only problem is that he dropped out of highschool and he didn't have a drivers license (he's almost 21) I gave him a year to change something with me constantly encouraging him to get his stuff together. Well by the end of the year I asked for some space because I needed to decide what I needed to do. Well he just ended up clinging harder because he thought he was going to lose me. I decided to break up with him. Less than a week I really regretted my decision and I started talking about getting back together with him, he wanted nothing to do with it even though he told that he still loved me. The next day I found he had a new gf and thats when I took his phone away that was on my cell plan. I haven't talked to him since and it's been almost 2 months. I still really love him and I don't know what to do and what happened. I'm really confused on whether I will ever talk to him again and where this girl came from (I know for a fact that he wasn't cheating on me when we were together) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i know that he met her at work so she was probably just waiting till we broke up. She's a real self centered person, the complete opposite of me I guess.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Hi there,
It's most likely a rebound relationship. For some men they can jump back on the dating train the moment they break up with their partners.
So for you I guess you just have to move on and start over, that's what you were doing already wasn't it?
There is no point in wondering where he met this girl, you guys have split up so at the end of the day he can see whomever he wants.
Good luck in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): Don't want to do this to you and I could be wrong, but I was with one for 4 years. We were "that couple" the whole time. Totally trusted eachother too, no way that either of us would have cheated. He flucked out of college and I wanted him to get his stuff together before we settled down together. Changed my mind a month later. He was with some other girl. Supposedly he still loved me and what he had with her wasn't the same as what we had, but he couldn't break up with her, since she didn't do anything wrong. Soon later he did get his shit together. 3 years later, he's still with her and telling everyone that she's the one he's going to marry. It sucks.
PLEASE be carefull because he told me he still loved me and didn't know whether we could try something again for about a year in a half, keeping me on the line and absolutely miserable. I'm still screwed up when it comes to realationships!
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