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writes:I'm quite young, actually, and I do think I'm too young to experience actual love.But, I've been suffering through unrequited love for 3 years. It seemed great to have a friend who I had this feeling about. But I guess I was too late, and something changed. He hardly talks to me anymore, and we've changed from close friends to mutual friends.I'm trying to get over him, since I know my friend likes him as well and gets along with him more than I do, and that the heartache pains me too much. But what if I still want to be closer friends with him once again? Please tell me how I can deal with this. Reply to this Question
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (14 March 2008):
 This type of thing comes and goes at your age. Just be friends and be content that you have him as just that--a friend. Later in years, he may come back to really like you, but he's too young (and you are too) to be this serious. I know it hurts now, but in time, your feelings will change too. Trust me. Gena
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reader, Gembob051  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Does your friend know how you feel about this guy?? if she does then she should realise that he's off limits. if she doesn't then you should tell her how you feel and ask her to back off for the sake of your friendship.
you don't state your age in your question but when i was 15 i was head over heels for a friend of mine. i have known him since i was 7. like you i left it to late, he has a child now. My advice to you is to make an effort to get to know him again. tell him how you feel. you have nothing to lose and a lot to gain if he feels the same. be brave, decide what you want and go for it. love is a sacred thing you have to grab it with both hands.
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reader, Holz +, writes (14 March 2008):
HUney i know it hurts to get your heart broken but ther has got to be a reason whyyour realtionship with him as a friend has just died like that. You need to talk to him see if hes still the same with you. So waht if your friend likes him you are allowed to be friends with someone arent you and who knows maybe by tlaking to him you can sort it out and have the happy ending that you want.
Good luck hun
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (14 March 2008):
 i can see that this obviously matters to you a lot. i think you need to work out what changed and try and sort that out. work out where things went wrong.
if you email me i might be able to help you further
sparkii
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