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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: hey guys,So this kid who i had a thing with for a little while, we ended things like last month and we ended off really bad. He said he doesnt want to be my freind or anything. Starting two weeks ago i guess he decided to be mature and talk to me (being my freind) it was very akward to start with because we havent spoken in a long time. Now he is starting to get flirty with me and im flirting with him back. Now hes the type of boy who NEED and LOVES attention. We were texting last night and i said something flirty and he goes " this how you used to act when i first started to talk to you,, then i liked you and u hardly gave me my attention=......" So yeah i dont know what to do , im confused with what he wants with me. Im supposed to hang with him this weekend and i dont know what is going to happen. He is also hooking up with this girl right now and has been for the last 3 weeks, He claims he likes her but honestly i just think he loves the attention she gives him. Tonight if i text him, do u think i should tell him how i missed him or miss having him, or tell him im confused and idk what he wants?PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR ADVICE!THANKS
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reader, AskEve +, writes (14 March 2008):
Everyone likes a bit of attention! He does like you but history is repeating itself here and you're doing exactly what you did when you got together before. He just doesn't want to get hurt again and is a bit apprehensive in case the same thing happens again.
If you DO like him then yes, I would let him know. I think you'll find he'll drop this other girl for you if he knows you're serious about him this time. Good luck!
~Eve~
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