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Why am I nervous about having sex with an older guy?

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Question - (14 March 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

Have you ever been scared to have sex with someone who is alot older then you? Especially ten year diff. I cant figure out why im nervous to and im not a virgin but iv never had sex with someone who was older then me. Im 22.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

When I was 17 I almost slept with a 38 year old man. But I didn't go through with it all the way, because I wasn't ready. And you shouldn't either if you are not ready.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

he was 59 when l was 21

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A female reader, Holz United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2008):

Hi,

You probably just nervous because you have never been with someone who is ten years older than you. Dont let himforce you if your not comfortable then dont do it because you wont enjoy it.

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (14 March 2008):

sexi agony auntHi

Mail me and i will let you know about my experience. My bf is ten years older then me and i would be more then glad to let you know about my experience.

Regards,mail me

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A female reader, Miss Potter United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2008):

Miss Potter agony auntI agree with the anonymous reader, if your scared your not ready. Cause when you are ready, you will want him to the extent of wanting to rip his clothes off him!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

The simple answer is don't until you are ready. If your courtship is long enough you will be comfortable. Don't cut this short, it is the best part. Get to know each other's bodies bit by bit. Please don't worry, tell him how you feel. If he really cares for you he will be really helpful and kind.

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A female reader, red1982 United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2008):

Are you nervous because you think that because he is older he must have had more experienced women then you and won't think that you match up??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

If you're scared your not ready to have sex with this guy. The age doesn't matter.

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