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36-40,
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writes:I was in a secret relationship (for various reasons) with my best friend for about 6 months solidly, then on and off for another year or so. This was 5 years ago now. We've fallen out (as friends) because of it but we have never talked about it after it all ended. We are still friends but in a very strange way in that it will be really intense for short bouts of time then we'd fall out with each other again for 1/2 a year or so or more at a time. I am still in love with them but I can never say it cos I don't want us to fall out completely and because it all started as a secret relationship I have been in a right state ever since we split up. I can't talk to anyone at all about it and lately it's just been eating me up bit by bit. I dont really know what to do anymore...
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Oh, I believe there is someone you can talk to about it: God. Whether it was with a female or a male, He is there to help us sort out our frustrations, not to condemn us for our preferences as some people would probably have us to think.
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reader, Jmo +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Forgive me for assuming, but It sounds like your secret relationship was with a female. If it wasn't, then completely disregard this. If my assumption is correct, maybe she is still uncomfortable with her sexuality and that's why she keeps going back and forth. Once again, disregard this if I'm completely off.
-Jmo
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