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51-59,
*ariawong
writes:We have been married for seven years and my husband is having an extra-marital affairs for six years with another young women with two illegitimate children. With me, we have 3 children and i am pregnant now. What should i do ?
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reader, Gena Bullock  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 Based on what you've said, it sounds like you've known about this 'before' you got pregnant. Did you do this to make him stop having affairs or did you THINK it would stop him? Not a good move on your part if you did so.
I think you should kick him out and file for divorce; have your baby and get all the spousal support and child support you deserve. This man obviously doesn't know what he ha(d).
I know this will be hard on you and the children you have now will adapt. IT could be the best thing to dissolve the relationship now and have a better environment for them as well as YOU. Gena
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (14 March 2008):
 If you know your husband has has these affairs then why on earth did you get pregnant to him again? You need to sit down and decide what you want. Are you willing to continue in this marriage knowing that he's sleeping with someone else? Have you talked to him about this?
I know you'll feel trapped because you have 3 children and one on the way but do you really always want to feel second best here? You have the choice. You can kick him out (you have the kids so why should you move) if he's not willing to keep it in his trousers and be with you exclusively or you can stay with things the way they are and live with the fact that you need to share him.
The choice is YOURS!
~Eve~
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