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*rabianPrince
writes:Men love to hear women moaning, shouting and complimenting his tool and how good he is performing...what about women? What do they like to hear while making sex? What things turn her on more and make her cum faster?Need to read women's replies plz :-) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): One must be a little careful in saying their partner's name during the passion of sex if it is a new relationship. I was married to my ex wife for 11 years. I accidentially spoke her name a few times at first with my first girlfriend after my divorce. Fortunately, she was understanding and just said things to embarrass me instead of getting angry. Not all women are that understanding. She couldn't have hated me too much for the mistakes, as we have been together for 28 years.
Little noises and movements by both partners is great. My wife and I do both naturally, so there is no need to fake.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 Great advice from all the Aunt's. I'd also like to throw in that personally, I love it when my man says my name. Not too much, not over and over again but I like it when he throws it in the mix. It indicates that he's actually thinking about ME. I like it when he moans or let's me know that I'm pleasing him... I don't like it when he's silent. That makes me think that somethings wrong, he's not enjoying it or that he's distracted.
Hold her tight, say her name, moan a little and you've got a delicious sex soundtrack.
Good luck and have fun, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, scythe  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 tell her how much you LOVE her. hold her tightly.. make her feel special and cared for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): if shes into dirty talk, mention how wet/warm/tight her pussy feels, she'll like that. tell her she's amazing, tell her when it feels good, etc. if she prefers sweet talk, tell her how gorgeous her body is, how soft and warm her skin feels, how much you love feeling her breasts pressed up against you, etc.
if she doesnt like talk at all, heavy breathing and a few moans will get the point across, maybe once in a while saying "oh my god" or something like that.
good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): My wife and I don't really want the complements during sex. We think it detracts from the sex if there is too much talking. The only talking we do is to ask what the other wants, like position. What we do like are the natural sounds that the other makes when they are enjoying sex, like the heavy breathing and the sexual moans. I also liked the same with any other past partners. The sound that I have always liked the best is whatever sound that partner made during her orgasm. Also, I liked the way she moves during her orgasm and before when she is building up to it. My wife likes much the same. I rally never asked any other partners what they liked.
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 I like to see my guy enjoying himself. Usually the look on his face speaks for itself!! :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): I would say that most women like it wen a guy compliments them too. Also i love it wen my hubby asks if im enjoying myself and also when he asks if i would like him to go faster or harder you know stuff like that.
But forthe most part i just like to see him enjoying himself, i dont think its that important to be vocal really. But its a personal thing.
hope ive helped
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