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writes:My bf and I had been together for about 4 years now. We've known each other for more than that, but only be seriously dating for that time. We've had some really bumps on the road, and I had always been the one trying to salvage our relationship. However, since the begining of this year I've been giving our relationship a big thought, and I am not quite convince that he loves me. I have always dreamt to have this beutiful and romantic relationship with my bf, but I am not feeling that from him. I want a man who is honest, romantic, spontaneously, and will do anything for me. However, since I have always been the one there for him, I am not sure if he will always be there for me. Maybe I am fantasizing about some fairy tale kind love story.We are living apart, but I don't think that matters when true love is what's on our relationship.How do I know if he loves me? How do I get out of this insecurity? Reply to this Question
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reader, speedcat +, writes (28 January 2008):
men and woman so different. let me tell you, we really do live on different planets! 4 yrs.? hard not to love someone after all that time no? maybe its just not his personality to be all those things you want from him, doesnt mean he dont love you.some people fall in a "RUT".
rcn wrote that if your trully in love than it doesnt matter were you are with that person ,,,your happy! hes right!!
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reader, rcn +, writes (27 January 2008):
 Do you believe fairy tale stories just happen, or are they created? I don't know of any "chick flick" where someone said, I have this idea, no go do it. As far as being unrealistic, that's up to the people involved. The fact is, weather on a white horse, or just a walk in the park, if it's with someone you truely love, the little things is what creates the fairy tail love.
i don't know how long you've been on this site, but a couple of months ago, there was a guy who reconnected with a highschool sweetheart after not seeing her for 30 years. He mentioned they were going to meet and wondered what to bring her. He left on a Thursday, danced on friday, and they were married on Saturday. The resort, hearing their story, allowed them at no cost to use their events room for the wedding, and their staff designed it for them.
That was an amazing story. Even a story like that, has to be created. Plans had to be in place then executing them.
If you want those amazing times, they have to be planned and created.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 You are in love with the feelings of love. This kind of love is beautiful but unrealistic.You fantasize and dream of the kind of love from him but he is only human.
You can Google that question and you can find all the answers you need.
Learn to trust on small matters and gradually grow to bigger things.
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