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My best freind is starting to get into drugs, alcohole and sex. How can I help him?

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Question - (27 January 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *oafreak writes:

My best freind is starting to get into drugs, alcahole, and sex. I;m verry worried about him. I love him like a brother and he used to be a good kid. I want to interfere but I don't know how to without ruining our freindship. Please someone help me help him.

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A female reader, mizzbrannon United States +, writes (28 January 2008):

i agree with laura but if he doesnt agree with you then dont try to push it on him because then he might not want to talk to you anymore.you can all talk to a counslor about it but ask to remain anonymous.the couselor could try an get him some help.or you can call 1-800-378-4435 or you can call 1-800-622-HELP those are just a few drug hotlines. im not sure if they will help but you can try them an they could proly tell you better ways to help your friend

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A female reader, violentviolet United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2008):

violentviolet agony auntLaura is right. All you can do is not judge him and be there for him when he needs you. He might have to learn the hard way but he'll find out who is true friend is in time.

In the meantime you could get to know somemore about drugs and alcohol at www.talktofrank.com

You're a good friend, but don't let this drag you down.

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A male reader, Somethingeasy United States +, writes (27 January 2008):

Somethingeasy agony auntYeah this is one of those things in life youu cant stop. If your friend is using drugs, its his problem. He will most likly end up using drugs the rest of his life.

Sad to say its best to let him go as a friend, and take this oppurtunity to make new better friends.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008):

Hi Hunny, http://www.soyouwanna.com/site/syws/frienddrug/frienddrug.html

Here is a link that will help you sweetheart, You can only advise and I hope you can help, You are a good friend, The sex side of things well this is natural for young lads as long as he uses protection TAKE CARE LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (27 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou can advise him and that is all you can do. If he does not listen to you , there is nothing more you can do for him.

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