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writes:Well there are loads of questions about teachers n students but hey here goes!Well on friday nyt just gone i was out with my best friend and we was in this pub and all the teachers were out drunk! There was this one that i really liked and he wasnt there! But his best mate was ( he is also a teacher) soo he was like oh neil is on the phone so i was like let me say hello! i was chatting to him and things got a bit rude and he was like i wouldnt say no and then he was like i am gutted i am not out tonight and that we would have to go out again together. Now the problem is i really like him and he isnt my teacher really he taught me last year. I am 18 so i know i am legal? But i dont know weather he would get into trouble or notNow i dont want to face him in collge incase he was just drunk and i make a fool out of myself! If you get me!HELP!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): Thanks every! Well he emailed me today and said that I would have to be called into his office for a meeting... What ever could that mean? I wonder :P:P Cheers
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reader, Amy2007x +, writes (28 January 2008):
 im not entirely sure if it would be ok, it might but then again you wouldnt want to risk it! lol so check it out i dno google it or sumthin lol :P
and btw they say tht drink makes the truth come out so... yeah he likes you ;)
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 well i agree with the other answer. you say your in uni?? things are different in college, things are more casual and not as restricted by regulations as school. so as long as your 18 and he's not your teacher then i say go for it!! i would have loved some certain teachers to say that in my college!!and yeah i get you about him maybe just being drunk - well obivously he likes you anyway, alcohol is truth serum!! but sober and in college he may not want to pursue anything. maybe try and bump into him NOT in college, in a more social place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): I say go for it, you are 18 after all
but dont jump on him, be cool and if he makes n e references then you know he meant what he said, if he seems a bit embarrassed then let it go, it was just the drink talking.
play it by ear, see how it goes, :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): Hiya, uh my friend (18 yrs) is actualy going out with her "teacher" (part-time) and also having sex with him. You are going to have problems if students start talking and some1 with higher authority hears about it. I dnt think its appropriate teacher-student relationship as its a breach of trust but if you really want to be with him and he is prepared to take on the consequences then go for it.
But first i think you should talk to him regardless of whether he was drunk or sober, if you know where you stand with him den the situation will be sorted out easily as he would be able to tell u if it wud get him in2 trouble n whether he feels the same. Dnt avoid him cos it will js end up buggin u.
Good luck!
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 well, I myself say that flirting is the key.
Im not sure about rules, really, and I wouldn't put the cart before the horse. Give him a wink next time you see him walking by, or just a friendly smile to let him know that you meant what you said, without it looking like you're stalking him. See how he reacts. If you do ever get to the point where he "asks you out", then you could say, "hey, sure! I'd love to. But what are the rules about a teacher going out with a student?" Or perhaps you could take the upper hand, and next time you see him, say, "Hey, you owe me a drink- some of us are going out later... you should come along." (Then let your friends know to give you some space at the pub!)
Chances are, either way, he'll appreciate your candor. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): to be honest im not sure about this one...i fancy loads of teachers and would love to do it with them! i mean normally id say its totally illegal cos its a student-teacher thing...but you're 18..and you're not HIS pupil. i suppose i wouldn't see a problem..but perhaps alot of people will disagree with me here!
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