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Confusion regarding anal sex

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Question - (27 January 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

dose anal sex hurt?

i kno people that say it dose!

and that say it dosent?

i wanna try it but in scared....

someone help plz

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A female reader, Diyta United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2008):

as far as i know..enjoyable as much as it is 4 some it will give you probs such as anal incontinence..apart from stds

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008):

Anal sex is fun and a good alternative when your on your period. Its also nice if you like to feel dirty! Just make sure you are relaxed (not easy the first time) and use plenty of lube (essential!).

A good tip is to use a douche beforehand if you plan to do it and start with something small - don't go straight for a big one. Also, don't sugget it first let him do that.

I especially like it because it really turns guys on (never met a guy so far that didn't want to do it) and makes them really hard!

enjoy

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (27 January 2008):

Yos agony auntIt depends on the person. And it depends on how you do it. Some people love it and some people hate it. One thing is for sure: if you do it wrong (too fast, no lube, not relaxed) then it hurts A LOT.

This website (written by a woman) has lots of information on how to do it safely and comfortably. Bear in mind she's very into it and very sexual (appeared in porn etc), but the information is good nonetheless:

http://www.puckerup.com/

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A female reader, LizzieLowe United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2008):

Crickey!! It's hardly a problem!! You know what pain feels like. Try it and if it hurts....STOP!...if it doesn't then do what you want. Life is full of options/choices...it's a decision you have to make.

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A male reader, Somethingeasy United States +, writes (27 January 2008):

Somethingeasy agony auntI had this one girl, I would get to orgasim when I gave her anal sex. She loved it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008):

When I did/do it I feel uncomfortable because it doesn't feel right to me but my boyfriend doesn't expect me to let him often so I don't mind doing it every so often. If you don't use lube it will hurt, but if you use lube then it will go in alot easier. Do not have anal then vaginal sex!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008):

my ex girlfriend loved it maybe you should try it

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A male reader, corey757 United States +, writes (27 January 2008):

umm it depends with lube lik k-y thn no my gf didnt seem to care to much she said it didnt matter if i did it or not

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