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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have had a boyfriend for 3 years, he was the best thing in my life i did everything for him. This year our relationshiop I feel is falling apart because what people say about us really hurts our feelings. On the first day of the second term he told me to follow him so that we could go to a safe place away from his brothers. He asked me if i still remember the day when his books fell and i picked them up for him well his aunt was in her car and saw us talking. She told his father and his father beat him so hard and grounded him for life and took his mobile and laptop. He told me that he doesn't care about what happens to him that much but he cares about what his dad might do to me because he is kinda cruel and always angry. We promised each other that we might see each other except for once in a week so i said that i will not come to meet him, then he said that he'll come to see me once a week. I kept my part of the promise for about a month but he never did his and now apart of me is trying to get revenge and a part of me is lost but some how loves my nephew as a boyfreind . My question is what should i do?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 It's very hard to go against the wishes of your parents at your age. This is especially true when he has a parent that is abusive. Try to think of it this way, if meeting him secretly is going to put him in harm's way, wouldn't a more loving gesture be to wait until you are both older, when you can handle both of your families and most especially so that his father stops hurting him. It's not fair to him to live in fear right now in order to meet up with you. Secrets have a way of being found out, and then where would he be? He may be staying away now because he really wants to protect you, that's probably why he hasn't shown up. Meeting secretly is probably not a safe thing to do at your age anyway. If you can talk about waiting for for each other and then stay apart for a couple of years until you are older, perhaps you can be together again in the future.
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reader, jm81690 +, writes (27 January 2008):
 As far as being hurt by the stuff people say about you guys, who cares?
If you like each other, the opinion of others shouldn't mean a thing. People are small minded anyways, so pay no attention to them.
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reader, Somethingeasy  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 FIrst of all your what 12? And your going after your newphew? How old is this person that your talking about?
It sounds like there is alotta wrongs going on here. Its best you move on.
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