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51-59,
anonymous
writes:.. Me and my gf from Ghana, West Africa have been in communication with each other for fifteen months now. I tried to go over to Ghana, West Africa in November last year. Anyway, when I got there, the Ghanian Government refused me entry and sent me back to the UK. I did meet her at the airport, but only for about 2 hours. OK, I have helped her a lot with regards to giving advice about finding work etc. Now she is not calling me as much as she used to do before. She says that she really loves me and I know that.... I am very pleased that she has found work. Anyway, what I want to know is, do you think it is normal for a couple not to call each other for a while? Do you think it is a good idea to have a break from calling? I really miss her and she missess me. It just that I think she has changed, which I suppose this is normal in a close friendship/relationship?
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (27 January 2008):
 I would agree with Laura, I think what is at the root of this is it's the change in routine that is upsetting you and in LDR's routine is important because it takes the place of what would be normal dating behaviour; routine also provides some comfort and when that is disturbed then it tends to be unsettling. It seems to me that work is obviously occupying a big space in her life that it wasn't before and there doesn't seem to be any undue call for concern.
I wouldn't take a break as such, just let her come to you as I am sure she will and try not to make an issue out of the less calling. Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 There are ups and downs in every relationships. Sometimes , you get to talk everyday and sometimes there are times when you just don't talk to each other.This is normal.
A break would be good for your relationship. It helps you to see things in the proper perspective.
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