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I'm 15 and my boyfriend planned for us to reenact porn scenes...

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Question - (15 January 2008) 14 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm 15 and my boyfriend wants to see me squirt I need help my boyfriend is 18 and likes us to watch porn together then reenact it he got his best mate to join so we could reenact this scene with two boys one girl help please

Gina

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009):

Dear Annoymous

You're only 15 and his 18yrs, @ your age sex should not be thought off, leave this stupid guy, doesn't deserve you. One man would like his girlfriend to act out porn scene in front of his friends. If you decide to do it, you name may be on the line as all boys in your neighbour hood will hink of you as a prostitute. GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP TODAY. Remember the boy at school that loves you, go for him, he will treat you with respect not like a Porn star Good luck.

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A female reader, claire_boyfriendtroubles Canada +, writes (23 January 2009):

that would be really awkward doing a porn/sex scene with your boyfriend (which is fine) but with his friend too?!

having your boyfriend's friend get horny off of u and possibly do sexual stuff to you is weird!

but whats the porn scene about?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008):

lisen i'm 14 and i love watching porn but thats as far as i will go. i will watch it but i won do it. and you should do the same. my step sisiter just turned 16 and her boyfirend is 19 he loves porn he watches it everyday. and he asked my step siter to do a scene with 6 guys and another gurl. and guess what the scene was they were pretending to rape my step sister and her freind and guess what hapened to my step sister shes now 8 months pregnat. me and my mom sat down had a talk she said that sex is a very important thing i dont no if ur a virgin but ur only a virgin once u no being a virgin and given up ur virgnity is u ur most prize posetion. u should say NO. my step sister has to miss out on school. think about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008):

dont do it!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008):

All these answers so far seem a bit doom & gloomy to me. I don't see why this is automatically such a bad thing. Threesomes can be a lot of fun if everyone's doing it for the right reasons. Your boyfriend might be a bit bisexual. So what? At least he wants to explore it with you, and not sneak around behind your back.

So, if this situation actually sounds fun or interesting to you, then why not try it? You only live once. Might as well make the most of it.

On the other hand, if this is something that doesn't sound fun to you, then don't do it. Simple enough. And definitely don't do something you don't want to do just because you feel pressured into it. That would probably end up being a bad experience for you.

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A female reader, lovehate United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2008):

lovehate agony auntIf you don't wanna do it don't do it.. It will come back and haunt you at some point. Be rational about the situation, don't make a mistake that you regret later on. He sounds like he just wants you for sex to be honest.

Take Caree xx

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (16 January 2008):

It seems you really wana please your boyfriend.Well if i's your brother,i'd kick the living demon outta him.DON'T do it.He's using you for his own satisfaction,where's yours.By da way,you are still young don't abuse your body in such a way.Your future husband may not be too happy about such a history unless you see yourself marrying your current bf.Tell him to stop using and abusing you or else you'll report him to your parents or da police.Please don't do it.My heart goes out to young people like you.

Take care.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (16 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIf you don't like , don't do it. He is just using you for his depraved mind.If you love a girl , you don't force her to do anything which is not right .That is not love but lust.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008):

please dont do it run from this situation you are really too young and it sounds like he's playing he probably knows he can convince to do just about anything he's 18 sweetheart and i don't think he'll like you even more for doing it...say no if you're uncomfortable and he'll know you have somewhat of a backbone and that he can't make you do anything youu don't want to do...and he'll either have to be satisfied or he'll leave and you will see that he wasn't in it for you in the first place

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008):

don't do this... It will come back to haunt you at some point..

He doesn't sound like a good boyfriend at all.. If he really loved u he wouldn't ask you to be his prostitute.. Is he a pimp? Or maybe he's in love with his mate and needs a cover to get to him...

Either way it makes no sense for you to be the object of an experiment and take no consideration for your feelings...

Don't do it!

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A male reader, 2old4this United States +, writes (15 January 2008):

2old4this agony auntDon't do it. It's a relationship killer no matter how much you both might want to do it. If you guys have one of those relationships where you both know it's just for fun and if it ended it wouldnt be that bad, then maybe. Of course I would like to think you wouldn't be getting in to that kind of stuff at your age. In my personal opinion, any guy that is willing to "share" his girl with another dude is either gay, Bi, or just doesn't care about you that much. Sorry.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008):

Do you want to do this, or are you just doing it because your boyfriend wants you to? If you're not into this type of thing, don't do it just because of him. If you're not comfortable, tell him. If he doesn't take it well, break up with him.

If you want to, though, I would say just be careful. Use birth control and make sure you're comfortable with it before it happens. There's no need to rush anything. Make sure there's no videotaping or picture taking involved. You don't want to end up like Paris Hilton.

I feel that you're too young for this and that you'll regret it later, but there's nothing I can really do to stop you besides to say, what would people think of you if they found out you did things like this? Your reputation would be trashed! Just don't take the risk.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008):

hey hun...well you're only 15..its pretty young..and dont do anything you dont wanna do!! short and sweet =]

ooh cud i ask how long it took for your question to be posted after you typed it?

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (15 January 2008):

O Connor agony auntim guessing you are not comfortable with this? well this sounds awful to me hun, he knows that because he is older than you he can take advantage, but dont let him!!has he ever forced you to do anything??i need to know more chicken so just please email me and ill be happy to give you all the help you need xxx

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