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writes:I have always liked my bestfriend. She's been my closest friend for almost 5 years now. 2 years ago she asked for one of my mates number and since then they have been together. They always fight and break-up and i always help to get them back on track which I kind of regret. For years I have feelings for her but never told her. Im pretty sure she kind of knows and I dont know whether to just say it and get it out there or what. Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (16 January 2008):
You are really in a tough situ and i have to agree with elliebellie that right now ain't the best time to tell her how you feel but again you may ask when will be the right time if you keep getting them back together.I think da next time they do break up insist that you don't wana be a part of it anymore and after a while tell her.But you need to be aware that when a girl sees you as a friend,it's hard to get to have romantic feelings for you.It's possible but takes time only if she's willing!
Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 A woman classify men into two groups, friends only or mates.
If you are in her 'friends' group, I am afraid she will not have any romantic thoughts for this group. They will just be friends and nothing more.
You need to get out of the friends group and let her know , you want to be her mate.
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reader, elliebellie  +, writes (15 January 2008):
hi hun!
this is one of those things where you should just keep quiet. blurting out your feelings when theyre still together could be awkward. its great that youre there for a friend and you need to let them know youre there for them. that way if something happens, like they break up the girl will know to go to you for support.
the girl might not know and you could be misreading her. i would be careful and not assume what you think to be right. be there as a good buddy.
you sound great
good luck
mail me if u wanna talk
lol
ellie
xxx
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