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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy late October last year and we really hit it off. He was gorgeous, made me laugh and we swapped numbers. Really thought I'd met a really nice genuine guy. We spoke for hours on the phone most nights and really just clicked. He sent me text messages most days calling me his princess, asking how my day was, saying he couldn't wait to see me again, and all that lovely stuff. But then right ouf of the blue, he stopped texting. Stopped replying to my emails and stopped picking up the phone. I had let myself get attached and the sudden silence really upset me. I felt it was my fault, but I got over it and just accepted he wasn't interested in me any more for whatever reason.Then About a couple of days ago, he sent me a message on facebook asking if I could ever forgive him for being a complete idiot. I told him I wanted an answer as to why he went quiet first. He said he had being having problems with his ex gf. When we started chatting all those months ago, we had both come out of relationships in the last few months so his excuse does make sense a bit. He said something about finding out his ex gf had met someone new and not totally being over her and needing to get over her. He said the longer he went without speaking to me, the harder it got to speak to me because he felt like an idiot. He has said sorry and given an excuse which adds up and has offered to make it up to me by taking me out.Should I forgive him?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 We should always forgive the wrongs people inflict on us .As to whether you want to continue with him , that is another matter.
If you think he is worth his salt, why not?
Everyone of us need a second chance sometimes...
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