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female
age
30-35,
*rystelle
writes:ive known this lad since i was about 4 years old. weve been close all the time. even dated at one point.i do fancy him. and i used too love him. but that faded when we fell out for 6 months. the problem is one of my exbestmates fancies him aswell. her and a couple of her mates swear down he fancies her back. but he told me she was some random girl he kissed and that she obsesses over him. however, ive been told to back off and not put any moves on him or it could jeopodise our friendship. (meaning the one with the girl) but my answer was 'what friendship'like i said i used too love him. but now we are back friends i fancy him loads. i want too get over him. heck ive even planned too go too a college furthur away just too get away from him. but for now i dont no what too do. its like i get annoyed at everything he does but still cant get over him. he ignores me at school. barely talks on msn. yet if i mention a lad fancying me or even talking too me he gets uptight and quizzes me about them.i cant confront him because he does do feelings. he always hides them. what should i do? i cant wait until college.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 ok it sounds to me that the relationship you both once had is over - in both of your eyes, you both are still finding it hard to hear of other ppl entering your life and that is completely normal - you have known eachother for so long, and been together so its going to be hard, naturally. do you still love him?? if not you need to move on and get over him, and enjoy goin to college, and forget about the 'friend' that fancies him, he's not yours anymore. if you think that you may still love him, then you NEED to talk to him, and let him know that you still love him, fancying is different from love and is no reason to want him back. just remember that it is gonna be hard finding out about him and other girls. i hope this helps hun if you want more advice just email me xxx
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