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female
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51-59,
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writes:I have been in a relationship with a man for just under two years. I love this man deeply but our sex life has ruined it for me. I feel that he doesnt love me he doesnt try an i have just gave up. I truly love him and cry all day but i am not happy an i cant go on like this. We argue constantly and it revolves around our sex life.He has even went to the dr and they told him that there really isnt a medication to take. he only can last about 2 minutes . I cant go on anymore i have to leave him. please help.....
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 January 2008):
 The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak. Some men have those conditions of premature ejaculations. They are quickly excited or nervous or too performance oriented and it comes too early.. They could have more foreplays and be relax.
It is not that he does not love you . You could be more loving and understanding to calm his nerves.Perhaps you may just go for some touching sessions and slowly extent the time of each sessions.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (16 January 2008):
 Low libido and premature ejaculation is a common problem unfortunately. There alternatives on the market and through doctors but a lot of men feel inadequate to take any medication.
If your guy does not want to take medication (this may be the truth in this case), there is no way that you can change his mind, it his decision.
Low sex life, arguing and respect issues are not a good ground for a healthy relationship. But of course you already know that, this is why you asked the question.
Well, my advise is to make any relationship work, both parties must work at it.
If both of you have tried councelling, compromising, tantric sex techniques and talking to each other, then this is not the relationship for you.
Being with the one you love, should be a happy experience, otherwise it is not meant to be.
If you are not happy, how can you make anyone else happy?
Hope you find happiness, you owe it to yourself.
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