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*darkendhopex
writes:I have been dating this guy for a while. We finally had sex with him a week ago. Now he dosn't call as much and dosn't seem too interested in me. Was he just using me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 Hi,
Unfortunately there are guys out there who are only interested in the chase. They will sweet talk you , treat you like a queen, and as soon as you "put out" they move onto the next conquest.
The best way to look at it is to thank god you don't have to deal with this person, imagine what sort of life this guy lives being so shallow. He would never be happy - so chalk this up to experience and you will meet someone nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2008): Yeah probably. I have been used before or atleast tried to be used before. The best thing to do is to let him be, don't call him, don't be mean and don't fall for it again. If you do that, they always regret it. But even if he does call a month later to apologize for being an a--hole, just let it go and move on, he's not worth it.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (2 February 2008):
 It would appear that way. Most men (notice, I used the word men) realize how much having sex can mean to some women. Any man who dates a woman for a good period of time and blows her off after having sex with her is a cad, and not worth your time anyway. Chalk this one up to experience.
Good luck.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (2 February 2008):
 We need more thatn these four sentences to assess what is going on. What was the relationship like before? How long have you been dating? Has he been pushing for sex all along and you finally caved and now he is not calling?
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reader, LovelyDove +, writes (1 February 2008):
 I have gone thru that before...and maybe there is a simple and good explanation on why he doesn't call you as much...in my experience that wasn't the case, and he was just really using me.
Maybe you should bring the subject up to him?
good luck!
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